It’s the slowest teacher. That’s a quote from my friend and sometimes teacher, Pat Fraley. Sadly,I have in fact learned several things the slow and hard way. Maybe my pain will help you avoid these mistakes in your own work.
Lesson number one: Always talk about the money right away. Years ago I was reluctant to bring up the subject of the budget for a given job or project first. (Here I’m talking about situations where someone contacts me about a job directly. When they come to me through my agent, all those details are all ready set.) A church had asked me to come record a narration for a marketing video they were preparing. They didn’t bring up money. I didn’t either. Not on the phone when they called. Not in the studio before or after the session. Then, as I was getting ready to leave, the producer, a member of the church staff said,
Thank you for your good work today. We’ll send you a check in the mail in a few days.
Sure enough, a few days later a check arrived in the mail. For $25. That was the last time I didn’t talk about the budget before we started recording.
Lesson number two: Give your clients the benefit of the doubt when a payment is late. This is one that I’m especially sad about, because I ended up hurting a relationship. Here’s what happened. I had been hired through a local radio station in a small market to serve as the signature voice for one of their clients. After some time that client decided to run some commercials on a different radio station in the same small market. But, they wanted me to continue as their signature voice. So I contacted the production people at the other station, recorded the copy they sent me and delivered the audio and my invoice to them just as I had with the first radio station.
Four months later, I still hadn’t received payment so I sent a note to the production manager at this second station noting how overdue the bill was, reminding him that I had delivered the audio they needed promptly, and asking when I might expect to receive payment. It wasn’t a mean note, but it certainly wasn’t as kindly or nicely worded as it could, indeed should, have been.
In reply I received a rather sharp rebuke from that production manager, informing me that my payment would be sent by the station right away, that they would take care of billing the end client for the money but stating in no uncertain terms that I would never work with him again. And he has been true to his word. The check arrived a few days later and I’ve never heard from him again.
As a result of this painful lesson, I’ve changed my collection practices. First, I usually contact people well before things get so far behind. Second, I always give them the benefit of the doubt that some kind of mistake in communication or accounting or some other thing has resulted in my invoice being lost, etc. Third, I try to make clear that I want to do what I can to keep lines of communication open both about billing and future work.
Lesson number three: Always talk about deadlines right away. I’ve had a couple of near disasters in this regard as well, but the most vivid recent example comes to my from my friend Kelly, another voiceover talent here in Charlotte. She’d received an email the other day about doing a small narration project and indicating that a script would be coming from someone else shortly. The email came rather late in the day and Kelly figured that she wouldn’t have the script until morning.
Lo and behold, when she checked her email at around 11:00 PM, the client had sent her a note asking, “Where is my narration? And in the morning, Kelly got another email saying that someone else had been awarded the job instead. Kelly would have been more than willing to work late if she had known of the tight deadline, but the client didn’t mention it, so she didn’t know. I’ve made similar mistakes, so I try to always ask what the deadline is, or even more often I’ll reply with when I expect to have the job done, asking if that deadline with work and indication that if it won’t what does he or she need?
As I said, I hope these brief stories will help you avoid similar goofs in your own voiceover career. And if you have a story to add, leave a comment.
Philip Banks says
Having looked at the stories one thing becomes clear – Basic principles can be taught but only experience gives a person wisdom and perspective.
It is possible to be too reasonable.
It is possible to appear too desperate.
It is often possible to give the benefit of the doubt where no doubt exists.
As Voice Overs we provide our Voices for clients. We do not run their businesses, write their scripts, manage or supervise their accounts departments, coach their directors, train their interns, set their deliver dates, correct their errors, offer free consultancy services or remain diplomatic under enemy fire.
I like to think of myself as a doorway to solutions – Doorway NOT DOORMAT.
rowell gormon says
the lesson i still haven’t mastered is: being so eager to solve a client’s emergency that i get left holding the bag when everything changes within an hour…and suddenly, no one wants to talk about the work i’ve already put in.
i got a refresher just this week with a little extra salt rubbed into the wound when i emailed to ask about a “kill fee”. the reply i got was an accidental “reply all” my contact had sent to his partner, wondering whether he should tell me to “take a hike”!
after sending him a brief reminder about the dangers of sloppy email practices, apologies were offered and accepted. but i won’t be so eager to solve any future “emergencies” for this client…or (if i’ve learned my lesson) perhaps many others.
Bob says
Philip,
As ever, you make good and well reasoned points. Certainly it’s often possible to give the benefit of the doubt where no doubt exists. But where it does I will continue to give it.
Your most salient point, at least in my view, is one with which I completely agree. Only experience gives wisdom and perspective. But, if one has a speck of wisdom it is possible to learn from the experiences of others.
And Rowell, you are quite right that there are many painful lessons in life. I’m sorry you recently experienced that so distinctly. But, perhaps the wisdom gained will prove to have been worth the cost.
Thank you both for adding to the conversation.
Be well,
Bob
Chris Fadala says
Bob,
Thanks for sharing these valuable learning lessons. I’m only sorry you had to learn them the painful way.
your friend,
Chris
Bob says
Chris,
Thank you.
Be well,
Bob
Mandy Nelson says
Bob, I love hearing your personal vo stories and lessons. They add such a great touch to your blog. Thanks for sharing these eye-opening ones.
Cheers,
~mandy
Bob says
Mandy,
You’re welcome. I don’t mind telling tales on myself, especially if they can be helpful to someone else. Thank you for your kind comments.
Be well,
Bob